There are several signs to look for if you think your husband may be cheating on you, but lets face it you know him better than anyone. We as women don’t need signs, we can sense it. I am not just talking to you as a private investigator but someone who has been there and done that. I am remarried now, and I should have met my husband three times before I met him, but I didn’t. That is how many times I drove in and out of the parking lot of a PI office. My advice to you is do it and get the closure, so that you can move on without guilt, or wondering.

I had a feeling that my ex was cheating on me, at the time I was not a private investigator, so I saw a sign for a PI in the community I lived in. Well, I drove in that parking lot three times, and changed my mind all three times; little did I know that this man was going to be my future husband and soulmate. Wow there is a happy ending before you even hear the whole story. I was always fascinated by PI and with my ex became and amateur one, but do not do that. If you gather the facts yourself, in many states it is not submissable in court, and you can be charged with stalking. Well, I am getting a bit ahead of myself. Let me tell you the signs of a cheating spouse. Here they are:

No longer interested in intimacy? As he comes home smelling like perfume, makeup stains on his clothes? Well if you don’t use perfume or makeup, guess what. Working a lot of hours, going to work early. Spending a lot of time on the computer, and suddenly he now has a password that you can not access. Extra miles on the vehicle. Hanging around with new friends. Suddenly having a new hobby. Hiding the phone bill, ripping it up before you can see it. Unexpected purchase of new cell phone or pager.

Stopped wearing wedding ring. Saying I need my time, space, etc. Less attentive. He wants to know where you are all the time. Is he a easily distracted, daydream a lot? Is he spending less time with the family? Have you asked him, and he says “ You are crazy, it is your imagination.”? These are just some of the signs.

There are more, but you will know. I am giving you advice as a PI and as someone who has been through it. Take a deep breath. Look at what you have going for you, and yes ladies each of you has so much going for you, hey look you had the intelligence to check out this website. If you doubt yourself it is only because of what you are going through.

Do not let him know you suspect. Do it right, protect, you, your assets, and your dignity. If you think that your husband is cheating on you, get all the facts, so you do not blow it if you are going to go to court. We have seen it happen, and you end up with nothing. Don’t tip your hand. Hire a Private Investigator, get the facts that you can present in court. One way or the other you will put your mind at ease you will get the facts that you need to for court, or you will find out that he is faithful, and going through some wacky phase. Nine times out of ten he is cheating and not going through a phase. If you discuss a case with a Private Investigator like us, it is totally confidential. He will never know you hired us, and will never know he was followed. Do it right, hire a professional...

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