So, you’re still sad. Miserable sometimes. Still not ready to move on yet. Yeah, ok. But still…there are little things, small changes, choices that will let you know that you are on your way to recovery.

HeartlessWonder is one of our fabulous ex-ers. She submitted this list on our forum. I laughed, cried and smiled reading her list of things a single girl can do. I identified with so many and just wanted to share this list with everyone~~

-You’ve changed your sheets. Or better yet? Bought new ones. Black.

-You no longer sleep in the clothes he left behind.

-You don’t search for samples of his cologne to torture yourself with anymore.

-You sleep with a stuffed animal – but not because you’re lonesome…just because it’s comfy.

-You took his phone number out of your cell phone.

-You blocked him on every instant message program available.

-You listen to whatever the hell you want – especially music you ignored because you knew he wouldn’t like it.

-You wear clothes he either a. Would have disapproved of or b. You know he hated.

-You can sit in the living room with Mudd on your face, and not worry about someone laughing at you.

-You don’t have to shave everyday…but you do because you like the way your new sheets feel against your bare legs.

-You masturbate without guilt.



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